Hold on Loosely, but don't let go!!!

Have you ever wondered what a good theme song for dating would be?   I mean this song needs to play on repeat in your head everyday all day when you are dating.  Sing it in the shower, listen to it at the gym, belt it your car, etc etc etc!!!  Do whatever it takes to hammer it in your head.  I once read about this wonderful 80's tune by .38 Special "Hold on Loosely"  Before it became an anthem it was just another 80's song I would dance to.  However, it has saved me from much heartache from guys I have dated.  Before, I use to be kinda psycho:-/.   I probably drove guys bonkers wondering "why don't you like me?"  But this song made all the difference, and when relationships didn't work out I was able to walk away.  "Eh, he's not the one" is what I would tell myself everytime.   I just didn't put 100% in at the beginning right away.  I feel if you keep it to where you're still breathing in your freedom love will attack, or if it doesn't you can build off that experience and not go postal from the lust.  Ladies be cool and collected!